Musalmano par uthne wale sawalo me sabse jyada ye bhi hai ki musalman apni ladko aur ladkiyo ki shadi jaldi karwa dete hai
Islam me illegal relationship yani haram relation banana haram hai bohot bada gunah hai.Scientifically dekha jaye toh ladka ladki sexually matured 16 se 18 saal me ho jate hai.Ab is umar me ladka ladki kuch galat kam na kare isiliye Islam me jaldi shadi ki ijazat di gayi hai. Taaki ladka ladki 18-20 saal ki umar me shadi karke galat relationship se bach sake gunah me mubtila na ho.
18 – 20 Saal Ke Ladke Ladkiyo Ki JaruratE
18-20 sal ke bad Insaan ke liye sex 1 need yani jarurat ban jati hai ab aise me wo apni jarurat puri karne ke liye koi bhi rasta ikhtiyar kar sakta hai. Isiliye maa-baap ko bhi chahiye apne baccho ki jarurat ko samajhte huve apne baccho ki shadi sahi umar me kara deni chahiye.
⭐ Quran me shadi ke bare me kya aya hai.
Sukoon Aur Mohabbat
Quran Surah Ar’ Rum (ayat 21) > Allah ne tumhi me se jode paida kiye taki tum unse sukoon hasil kar sako, aur Allah ne miya biwi ke darmiyan mohabbat paida kar di hai.
Ek Dusre Ka Libas
Surah al baqrah (ayat 187) > miya biwi ko ek dusre ka Libas bola gaya hai. Iska matlab ye hai ki Jaise libas Jism ko dhakta hai, hifazat karta hai waise hi miya biwi ko ek dusre ki izzat ki hifazat karni chahiye aur ek dusre ka sath dena chahiye.
Shadi Ka Maksad
Quran ke mutabik shadi sirf 1 rishta nahi balki Fitrat (nature) ko pura karne ka zariya hai. pak damani (chastity) ko bachane ka rasta hai. nasal ko aage badhane ka ek jayaz tarika hai.
Hadith
Shadi ko adha deen bataya gaya hai.Jab banda nikah kar leta hai to usne apna adha deen mukammal kar liya, ab baki adhe deen ke liye use allah se darna chahiye. (mishkat al-masabih 3096)
Sahih bukhari No. – 5066 , Sahih muslim No.- 1400 > Aye jawano Tum me se jo koi shadi ki istetaat (taqat / salahiyat) rakhta ho, use shadi kar leni chahiye kyunke ye nazron ko niche rakhti hai aur sharmgah ki hifazat karti hai aur jo shadi ki taqat na rakhta ho use chahiye ki wo roze rakhe kyuki roza uske liye dhaal hai.roza burai se bachata hai.
Muze shadi nahi karni hai.
Aaj kal ke ladke ladki bade aasani se bol dete hai muze shadi nahi karni.Shadi karna ambiya ki sunnat hai aur isse muh modna galat hai allah ke rasool s.a.w farmate hai.
Nikah meri sunnat hai, aur jisne meri sunnat par amal nahi kiya, uska mujhse koi talluq nahi (Sunan Ibn majah 1846)
Kab shadi nahi karni chahiye
koi aisa mard ho jo apni aurat baccho ki jarurato ko puri nahi kar sakta yani itna bhi na kamata ho ki apni biwi ko pal na sake to aise mard ko chahiye ki wo roza rakhe aur apni shehabat ko thanda kare.