Allah quran me mard aur aurat ke mutallik farmata hai ⬇️
- (SURAH AN NUR AYAT 26) :- गन्दी औरते गन्दें मर्दों के लिए (मुनासिब) है और गन्दे मर्द गन्दी औरतो के लिए और पाक औरतें पाक मर्दों के लिए हैं. और पाक मर्द पाक औरतों के लिए लोग जो कुछ उनकी निस्बत बका करते है ं उससे ये लोग बुरी उल ज़िम्मा है ं उन ही (पाक लोगों) के लिए (आख़िरत में) बख़्शिस है.
🌸 *Islam mai shadi – Ek Roohani safar , Sirf rishta nhi ibadat hai*
- Shadi… log kehte hain do logon ka milan.Lekin Islam ke nazdeek, yeh do roohon ka aisa safar hai jisme Allah khud shaamil hota hai
- Nikah ek promise nahi, ek ibadat hai — jahan mohabbat sirf jazbaat nahi, zimmedari aur barkat ka nateeja hoti hai.
Jab ek Muslman ladka aur ladki “Qubool hai” kehte hain, to asal me wo ek dusre ke liye Allah ki likhi hui taqdeer ko haa keh rahe hote hai.Us waqt, do dil nahi milte — do duaayein milti hain.
💫 *Nikah – Dil our Deen ka mail*
Islam sikhata hai ke shadi me sabse zaroori cheez “imaan aur niyat” hai.Dil milna zaruri hai, lekin niyat milna aur bhi zaruri hai.Ek sacha nikah tab pura hota hai jab dono ek dusre ko duniya ke nahi, Jannat ke raaste me le jaane ka vaada karte hain.
Mohabbat Islam me mana nahi — balki usko halal aur paak tareeke se jeena sikhaya gaya hai.Jahan izzat, sabr aur dua saath ho, wahan har din nikah ek nayi ibadat ban jaata hai.
🌿 *Miya biwi – Ek dusre ke libas*
Qur’an me Allah farmata hai: (SURAH BAQRAH AYAT 187)
*_Woh tumhara libas hai our tum uska libas ho_*
Iska matlab sirf sharafat nahi, protection aur comfort bhi hai.Islam me miya aur biwi dono barabar ke haqqdaar hain —ek dusre ke sukoon aur dua ka sabab hote hai.
Ek accha Muslim shohar wo nahi jo apni biwi pe hukm chalaye, balki wo hai jo apni biwi se mohabbat aur ikhlas ke sath baato ko samje aur uske kaamo me uski madad kare.
Aur ek achhi biwi wo nahi jo chup rahe,balki wo hai jo har mushkil me apne shauhar ke liye dua kare or uska sath de na ke shohar ke mushkil waqt me uska sath chod de
Miya biwi ka relation Aisa hona chahiye ki wo ek Dusre se Koi chize chupana nahi chahiye qki unhe 1 libas Bola Gaya hai Jisme Koi parda nahi hona chahiye.
Hamare pyare nabi A.S apne biwiyo ke Sath Kafi husn E saluk se peshaate the, aur unhe har kamo me bhi Kafi Madad Kiya karate the
💍 *Simple nikah sunnah*
Aaj ke time me jab shadiyaan dikhawa ban gayi hai,Islam hume yaad dilata hai ke barkat simplicity me hoti hai. Ek simple nikah me jitna sukoon hota hai, wo mehenga banquet ya designer jode me nahi hota. Ameer wo nahi jiska nikah mehenga ho balki wo hai jiska nikah me Allah ki rehmat ho Allah ko dikhawa pasand nahi Allah niyat dekhta hai.
🌙 *Shadi – Dua our Sabr ka Safar*
Islam me mohabbat instant nahi hoti,wo waqt, dua aur ek doosre ki khamoshi samajhne se banti hai.Kabhi kabhi mohabbat “I love you” me nahi,balke “tumne namaz padhi?” me chhupi hoti hai.
Sabr, dua aur respect — ye teen cheezein har Muslim shadi ki jaan hain.Jahan ye teen ho, wahan har jhagra bhi dua ban jaata hai
Shadi Me Gair Jaruri Rasmei
Shadi me sandal, milad, mehandi, haldi inka karna koi jaruri nahi hai, shadi ke mauke par 2 hi function hai shadi aur walima > Lekin afsos aaj hamare muashre me agar milad haldi jaisi rasam na ho to uss shadi ko shadi nahi samja jaata
Aaj hamari shadiyo me har chiz hoti hai bas allah ka khauf nahi
Cousin Ke Sath shadi (Nikah)⬇️
Log aksar yaha islam ko badnam karte hai ki islam me bhai behen shadi karte hai, Islam ne apni sagi bahan ke sath shadi karne ki ijazat nahi di hai cousin yani fuffu khala mamu chaccha se paida huve aulad se shadi karne ki ijazat di hai, Isiliye islam me cousin se barda rakha gaya hai wo ek dusre ke liye na-mahram hai, Jab koi Aurat mard ke liye na-mahmram ho uske sath islam ne nikah jayaz Kiya hua hai > Aur un aulado ka bhi nikah ek dusre se haram hai inhone 1 maa ka doodh piya ho.
Lekin Afsos aaj cousin ke naam par hamare muashre me bepardagi behayayi ghumna firna khane par jana ye sab aam ho chuka hai > To ye sari chizo ki ijazat islam nahi deta jaise 1 mard ke liye koi bahar ki aurat na mahram ho waise hi uske liye uski cousin bhi na mahram hai
Haa jab koi cousin aapas me nikah kar lete hai to ap wo ab naa mahram nahi rahenge.
Maa Baap Ki Galtiya
Aaj ke shadiyo me maa baap ke samne bacche nach gana karte hai aur begairat maa baap unhe Kuch Bolte tak nahi aur Koi unhe Kuch bole to Bolte hai ki ham modern zamane ki maa baap hai Kya unhe ye nahi samaj aata ki Allah ne hame Kya iski Ijazat di hai Kya ye behayayi nahi hai Kya ye Islam me Jayaz hai > Aaj ke maa baap ko Allah se darna cahahiye kyuki tumhare rab ki pakad bohot majbuti hai.
Aaj Ke Musalmano Ki Shadi Reception
Aaj hamari shadiyo me sirf khurafat reh gayi hai nach gaane gair islamic riwaj
Aaj hamari shadi sirf 2 minute ki hi reh gyi hai sirf nikah ke samay ijjat o ehtram se nazar aate hai fir whi nach gana, jara sochiye hamare shadi me allah ke rasool Aa jaye to kya ham inn harkato ke sath unko kya muh dikhaynge to ham Musalmano ko Allah se darna chahiye aur nikah islamic tarike se karna chahiye
Repetition : Repetition ke naam par bhi aaj hamare muashre me behayayi aam ho chuki hai > dulhe ke sath stage par dulhan ko bhi khada kar dete hai ab wo ladki sab ke samne bepardagi ke sath admiyo me photo shoot krte hue dikhayi deti hai, jara soch ke dekhiye kya ye 1 Musalman ko zeb deta hai
ham zindagi aise ji rahe hai jaise hame yehi rahana hai ham roze mehashar me apne rab ko kya muh dikhaynge > Allah se dua hai hame deen samjane ki taufeek de aur Deen par chalne ka ilm de … Ameen
🤍 *Aakhri Alfaaz*
Har nikah ek likhi hui taqdeer hai. Lekin jab taqdeer Allah ke naam se jud jaaye, to zindagi me rehmat barasne lagti hai. Shadi sirf ek din ka function nahi, ye ek roohani safar hai jisme har din nayi ibadat likhi hoti hai. Dua hai ke har Muslim joda aisi mohabbat paayejo duniya me sukoon aur aakhirat me Jannat ka sabab ban jaye.
Islam Me Talaq
- Allah ne islam me talaq isiliye rakha hai jis kisi miya biwi ke rishte me zagde fasad ho Rahe hai to Allah ne option rakha hai ki ham ek dusre se alag ho sakte Taki Ham ek dusre pe July na Kar sake Koi nuksan na Pohocha sake
- Aur Jo miya biwi alag hona hahate hai unke Liye Allah ne Quran me Surah Nisa me ijazat di hai ( Surah Nisa Ayat 130 )
- Aur hadeeth me aata hai Abu Dawood hd. no. 2177 : ki halal chizo me Allah ko sabse jyada na pasand chiz Talaq hai.
- Jis Kisi miya biwi ka talaq ho raha ho Uss waqt Allah bohot naraz Hota hai
- Miya biwi ka rishta hi Allah ne itna Sawab wala Banaya hai ki shaitan sabse jyada Khush hi miya biwi ke apas me zagadne se Hota hai
- Aur Islam me hai ki Shaadi ke baad insane ka adha (half) deen mukammal ho Jata hai
Allah hame Deen par chalne ki taufeek de , aur miya biwi ko mohabbat ke Sath Zindagi guzarne ki taufeek de …. Ameen